I think you & I are finally close enough for me to explain the sole reason I dislike laundry..And it's because... it's a multi-step process that Idgaf for.... yk? You gotta gather it...ok? Separate them out: darks from whites.
So then you gotta input your softener beads- if you roll like that--- & your detergents. Weird word.. Deter. Gents? Why not DETER A-GENTS? That would make far too much sense. Anyway... so then you load your color or whites- whichever you start with- close it, select a cycle, & leave. But then your ass gotta go back 1.5h later... shift it to the dryer- hope to fucking christ nothing is in the dryer, b/c that extends this step, which should be the shortest of all.
Right? You w/ me so far? Then you shut the dryer. Select a cycle. Leave. Return about 1h later to gather them- take a basket w/ you, so you don't have to make multiple trips. Put it in the basket. Haul it to the location of folding-choice. Separate them more, hang some, fold some--- I hate folding. It's too... intricate for me. lol